Random Humor

Daniel Millions

Most people think that wedding speeches are the only important type of introduction or well-wishing available. Although wedding speeches are certainly a critical part of a wedding celebration, they are just one segment of the event. Wedding toasts complement speeches, and though they are commonly confused or thought to be the same as wedding speeches, they are actually quite unique.

Wedding toasts are short statements that can either be planned or made spontaneously. Often, a guest will stand up unexpectedly and give a toast, and in other cases, they will be volunteered to make a toast. Some people put a lot of thought in to their toasts before making them, while others just wing it and try to make it sound as excellent as possible off the top of their heads.

The toast comprises of well wishes and, much of the time, humor. At the end of the toast, all the guests take a swig of their drinks as a gesture of support and agreement for what was said in the statements. On the contrary, wedding speeches are very formal, often more serious, and it is not required that you take a drink at the end of them.

If you are going to a wedding, it is best to prepare in advance to make a toast. Even if you do not personally plan on toasting, there is no way to predict whether or not someone will volunteer you to make a toast. Imagine how horrifying and scary it would be to go to a wedding with nothing in your mind, and then hear your name arbitrarily called out to make a toast. Nobody wants to have to deal with that kind of pressure, so it is best to relieve it early on by pre-forming a mini speech.

Preparing is not as difficult as it might sound. Odds are that if you are attending a couple's wedding, you know a fair deal about them. The best way to start off is simply wishing them well, and then using some of your personal knowledge to mention a few intimate compliments and jokes. There is no problem with asking some of your friends and relatives for ideas, and just talking to other people can spark your own creativity. Also, think back to famous movie toasts.

Do not replicate one exactly, but hearing them over again and adding your own twist will be seen as clever. In the case that all else fails, you can always turn to the Internet for a plethora of wedding toast ideas. In fact, it is best to go to the Internet even if you do have a quality idea, as you may find something you like better, or be inspired to create something of a higher degree.

For those who are truly intent on making a memorable and unforgettable toast, there is a way to almost completely assure that your wedding toast will be the talk of the event, besides the ceremony itself. Many people have made careers out of writing wedding toasts for others; all they need is some information about the bride and groom, and they can come up with the perfect toast that everybody will love. Personal toast consultations run from as low as twenty dollars into the hundreds, and the more you shop around, the better the deals you will find.